Relationships - Successful - Communication

Having a good communication in your relationship will save your marriage. Is their any truth to this belief?

For many people they believe once they have a successful communication in their relationship that it will solve their problems, only to realize that it is the beginning of the work ahead of their relationship.

Both people come together in a relationship hoping to have a life together and at the same time bringing their emotional baggage's that they did not heal from their pass relationship of family and lovers.

Family baggage's

What baggage you ask, the difficulties from childhood, the feelings of abandonment, being deprive, abuse verbally and physically, low self esteem the feelings of being an outsider never fitting into the gang, being alone.

Imagine you are most of the time forgetting about your needs and your feelings and you are upset when others are doing the same to you.

Pleasing others for the sake of getting them to like you or hoping that they will want to be your friend because you have them being dependent on you is not the right way to have a successful communication that is more manipulation.

Where to start

One simple way to understand how people view you is to ask them only if you are ready to hear the truth and do something about it.

You teach people how to treat you, how to behave towards you by your attitude, your respect for yourself.

Building a better relationship with others starts with you by having respect and integrity for whom and what you believe and hold to be true.

Loving you and choosing to be kind to yourself is part of the foundation for a successful communication with others, you cannot ask another to love you, when you are constantly forgetting about your needs and feeling.